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From One Embryo to a Lifetime of Memories: My Surrogacy Journey

Seven years ago, I stepped into the unknown and began my first surrogacy journey. I carried a little boy for a couple who had been trying for years to grow their family. Funny enough, we were in the same line of work, and that connection became the foundation of a friendship that grew into something much more.

Throughout the pregnancy, they supported me in ways I never expected. And in turn, they mentored not just me, but also my husband and my brother, helping us grow our family restoration business.

Going into that first journey, I thought it might be strange to have the intended father in the delivery room. Birth is such a vulnerable, personal moment. But as delivery day approached, I reflected on the love and support they had shown me, and I knew in my heart it wouldn’t be right to keep him out of the room when his child was being born.

With the intended father holding my right hand and the intended mother on my left, their little boy entered the world—and tears streamed down all our faces. It was a moment I’ll never forget. A year later, I carried their second son. Those two little boys, now nearly 7 and 6, will always hold a special place in my heart.

I honestly thought my surrogacy journey ended there. But something in me said, try again.

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That’s when I was matched with a new couple. This time, there was only one embryo—a little girl. I had no idea how much this tiny embryo would change all of our lives.

Three years have passed since her birth, and watching her grow has been one of the greatest joys of my life. I still get to see her with her parents, wrapped in love and laughter. They welcomed me into their world as more than a surrogate. I became part of their extended family. We’ve built a friendship that will last a lifetime.

And then, most recently, I connected with another beautiful couple and carried a little boy who was born in December 2024. His birth marked not only the beginning of their journey as parents, but another turning point for my own family. Because of this journey, we were finally able to buy our first home, a milestone that meant the world to us.

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  • Since his birth, they’ve continued to send me updates: photos of his big, beautiful eyes, his infectious little laugh, and stories that already show his sweet and spunky personality. He looks so much like his father, but every now and then, you catch glimpses of his gorgeous mother in his expressions. I look forward to hearing his little voice one day and the stories that will surely follow, the kind of playful mischief little boys are so good at getting into.

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  • Surrogacy has given me so much more than I ever imagined. Not just the ability to help others grow their families, but the opportunity to grow my own life too, in ways I never expected.

    One of the most beautiful parts of this journey is that I still speak to all the couples I’ve carried for. We catch up during the holidays, we chat about the milestones their children reach, and we continue to share life’s little joys from afar. The bond doesn’t fade after delivery, it grows stronger with time.

I don’t ever look back—I look forward.

I look forward to seeing those two little boys grow taller than their father.

I look forward to watching that little girl learn grace, kindness, and strength from her mother.

I look forward to hearing the laughter and stories of the baby boy born just months ago.

I look forward to the future, filled with memories that haven’t happened yet, but will forever be rooted in love.

And more than anything, I look forward to the hope that my experience might inspire another woman to take this path. To help create a family. To give a gift that truly changes lives, including her own.

If you’ve ever thought about becoming a surrogate, let this be the sign you need. You are capable of something extraordinary.